Oct 30, 2013

Exposed Mean Girls Mistress Naughtya and Mistress Ana. A tale of “Cruel Intentions” – screenshots!

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This came to us Via 2 Dommes that decided not to stand for what was going on from the 2 not so nice Dommes in the title of this post.  They had the courage to stand up to Dommes they thought were their friends but were not really doing the right thing to  other Dommes on Findoms.com OR the site. So you can thank Mistress Cyanide and Mistress Kelly, two very brave and awesome Dommes.


As much as we hate to make a post like this we feel the need to do it for 2 reasons.

1. The members of Findoms.com who these 2 Dommes tried to trash and get banned deserve to know why they were rated down and complained on.

2. One of these Mistresses felt the need to make a blog slandering Findoms.com , ALL because we wouldn’t ban members for her and upon her finding out we were making this blog in response is now claiming we are making threats on her life to deflect the fact she got caught. Its up to you if you want to believe that from a Domme that got caught doing these things.  We do NOT condone any threats!

This blog will show what is FACT from her and the other Dommes own FRIENDS on skype. a Few VERY VERY honest domme’s, who upon finding out what they were doing were so disgusted by it decided to make this known.

The intentions of these two Dommes was to hurt 95% of the findoms.com Community. We gave them EVERY chance to just be honest and fess up and stop with the bs. The 95% is a quote from MsNaughtya that feels 95% of the Dommes on findoms.com are NOT fit to be Dommes ( according to her ) so her and  Mistress Ana took it upon themselves to personally try and bring the Dommes of the site down in 2 ways.

1. Rating Dommes down to 1 star from their profiles they had on the site and then when they left, made a PAID slave profile http://www.findoms.com/worthlesspig/
2. While  MistressAna was there constantly reporting Domme profiles for small infractions and wanting me to ban and NOT warn the Dommes first. She was on more Domme profiles then slave profiles. Finally started to get frustrated with all her complaints over the tiniest things and wanting us to ban.

Here we go,




Above Skype convo with Naugthtya admitting how she rated Dommes down on a fake profile.


Above  she is saying that 95% of the Dommes on the site are fake or whatever and even the Domme shes talking to ( who was a new Domme at one time on the site ) is saying who are you to judge NEW Dommes. These two complained they didnt make much money on the site, WELL looking at Domme profiles and rating them down will probably not get you a lot of tributes.


Above she is explaining  Mistress Anas involvement and how these Dommes deserve what they rated them even if they just signed up and barley filled out their profiles.



This is the Domme who is her friend and is so disgusted by her behavior she tells her and decides to do the right thing by the community.

As far as  Mistress Ana goes she was the Domme that was constantly complaining on Dommes and trying to get us to ban Dommes over REALLY petty things because she felt they werent true Dommes in her definition of being a true Domme.  I will be the first to admit to getting frustrated with this and may have been less than professional with  Mistress Ana. she didnt like that nor the fact that we wouldnt just ban Dommes for her. I

I sent her this parting email . . . . .



As you can see I tried to be nice even thought she was being VERY difficult because we wont just ban Dommes over petty things without a warning. Sorry we dont just ban Dommes because a member doesnt feel they are a true Domme. any Dommes reported that had a nude pic or cam shit we would ALWAYS warn them and tell them we are Femdom and don’t alow that. they are new to it and deserve a chance.

So next  Ana then makes a blog bashing the site and how we allow racism in chat etc. Many Dommes who were in the chat the day of a racist joke will attest that the poor new Domme was VERY sorry and apologized many times but  Ana didnt want to accept that and wanted us to ban her on the spot. The N word was NEVER said!

Now as much as I hate to do this I felt it necessary for people to see when we get bashed that many times its just whacky ass Dommes like these two that want to change the community they KNEW was a certain way when they got there or Dommes that were banned.  These two Dommes tried to ruin many Dommes, getting them banned etc. If Im an unprofessional Admin for NOT just banning people because another member tells me, well then whatever.

Char has already come fwd about knowing these Dommes did this and she rated a few down but not as part of this hate campaign. and in her defense she does report some things and seems to be heading in a more positive direction by helping new Dommes on the site.

This post is just to show the fact to the members that were rated down and proof. I gave them a chance for me NOT to post this but one decided to post Im threatening to kill her and that I screwed up her wishlist ( a deflection as she knows people will see this post I told her I was posting if she didnt just issue an apology ) when yesterday I already posted this http://www.findoms.com/blog/10014/regaring-my-blog-about-dommes-who-were-causing-problems-on-the-site/ .

This is SO not our style but it had to be done and we want people to know what these Dommes are capable of.  This doesnt mean hassle them in ANY way. Thats not the way to be. We have a ton more screenshots and may post later. Please forgive my unprofessional-ism here.



Received more screenshots of convos with another disgusted Domme  ( Mistress Kelly ) as I was writing this . Here they are….












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Comments to Exposed Mean Girls Mistress Naughtya and Mistress Ana. A tale of “Cruel Intentions” – screenshots!

  • This utterly disgusts me that they claim to be female supremacists but felt the need to go around judging Dommes based on a 1 day profile. We all were new once and it took time to establish ourselves in this online community. It cant be done in a single day. And now they are going around marking ALL items purchased on wishlists…. HOW MUCH MORE CHILDISH can they be? Pretty sad I have to keep my lists private now to not get it done to me. Its just sickening and I wont stand for their ignorance any longer. Congrats Ana and Naughtya… you two are PHENOMENAL Dommes…. NOT!!!

    MistressKelly84 October 31, 2013 12:57 am
  • To the wenches that cleared my amazon wish lists and rated me low.. How little you know about me or what I have done. I am a ProDomme I currently do not practice for personal reasons. I have traveled across the country dominating men. I have been to conventions. I have the experience and just because I am also a Findom give you no right to judge me. I did nothing to either of you and yet you take the time to judge me. If you have any issue with me please come and tell me to my face! You have some nerve to act as the all knowing my shit doesn’t stink Dommes. Shame on your for thinking you are better than everyone else. Guess what you aren’t better than anyone else. If anything this makes you less of a Domme than the rest of us.

    Kristy October 31, 2013 1:12 am
  • hahahaha this is the funniest shit. these bitches got what they deserve. I dont know how they can call themselves Dommes with a straight face. rot in hell bitches!

    Funny October 31, 2013 1:21 am
  • First of all, I want to point out that, yes, the rating system is there to use – but NOT from a fake sub account..that in itself shows dishonesty.

    Secondly, if someone is such the all-knowing, ‘expert’, professional domme that she feels she has the whole concept of findom down to the point where she believes she can judge others in such an underhanded and nasty way, where does this blatantly underhanded betrayal of other Dommes fit into the scheme of things?

    While I will agree that one can tell a lot about newer dommes and instadommes based upon what they put in their profiles – someone please tell me what betrayal, disloyalty to all dommes in general, and downright meanness say about that kind of ‘domme’??

    Let us NEVER get so high-on-ones-horse that we forget that we were ALL new to this lifestyle at one point or another – thank goodness for many of us who have been around for many years didn’t have this type of ‘domme’ scheming behind our backs when we first began!!

    Shame on ALL who were involved in perpetrating this cheap attack!!

    Ms TnD October 31, 2013 1:23 am
  • ..Frankly, I’m appalled and disgusted. What they did wasn’t ‘research’ into shit- it was flat out deceitful, and in my opinion, meant to be hurtful, no matter WHAT they say.

    Lady Sin October 31, 2013 1:37 am
  • What an embarrassing display of utterly ridiculous, catty highschool bullshit! No Woman worthy of respect would waste Her time/energy cooking up such a pathetic scheme , and no amount of backtracking and excuses will hide the obvious intent of their actions. They should be ashamed of themselves, but they won’t be, because hating bitches of the like don’t care about anyone other than themselves.

    Miss back_Alley October 31, 2013 1:42 am
  • I am disgusted and almost speechless. My style is not traditional; it’s part of my appeal. That people who had limited to no contact with me whatsoever felt the need to judge me makes my stomach turn. For shame! We get enough of that from the vanilla world. My own grievances aside, I’m shocked and saddened that cookie cutters were in play here. And if you’ve spoken to me, you know that I adore cookies. To those who took a stand: thank you.

    Nova October 31, 2013 1:47 am
  • thank you for submitting this!

    Mistress/TopLosers.com October 31, 2013 1:53 am
  • I am in shock at the lack of respect for themselves. Only people with such low self esteems do things like this. To make a FAKE PROFILE.. when we work together to rid the time waster and lift each other as STRONG WOMEN! They might have been just straight jealous.. or they are poachers in their own way…either way they are obvy not trust worthy and I could only imagine how many other fake profiles they have, Domme and/or Subs! I am in shock, have lot more to say, just need to digest…ignorance and stupidity don’t digest well.

    Queen Candy Love October 31, 2013 2:03 am
  • Something that really pisses me off about this…

    What we’re engaged in is something that DEMANDS respect and trust. It’s very real and intimate and, yes, scary. As a submissive, especially, this fetish is not something I could tell anyone about outside of the scene. I RELY on the trust I can build with a Domme.

    My experience with findoms.com so far has been very good. I’ve respected so much of what I’ve seen there, and the people I’ve met. And I want to open up more about this need I have for D/s and findom. But shit like this?? It makes me question what I’m doing and what dangers there are. Selective disclosure of who are you etc is fine and expected. Deliberate deception?? Not EVER acceptable. It cuts right to the heart of the trust we rely on.

    And I won’t even mention the hurt and damage done to some wonderful Dommes – others have saidd it far more eloquently than I.

    Final thought – a community relies on the norms and expectations it builds up and requires. We flaunt them at our peril.

    craving-this October 31, 2013 8:46 am
  • a true Domme commands respect because of who she is. when she chooses behavior that’s unworthy of respect, she shouldn’t be surprised when she no longer gets the respect she thought she deserved. she’s just another bully in the schoolyard.
    i could see the rating thing as a childish and mostly harmless prank. but in the grown-up world, clearing wishlists is fraud and indefensible. they hurt some wonderful women, including the Mistress who i’ve had the privilege to serve the past six months and is in every respect a true Domme.
    these girls lost touch with reality. i hope one day they find their way back, and devote their time and talents (which they clearly have) more constructively.

    takemysoul50 October 31, 2013 11:11 am
  • Ew….just ew. That’s all I have to say.

    Goddess Styx October 31, 2013 1:30 pm
  • Wow, I am rubbing my eyes, not believing what I’m reading. I believe in supporting my Domme Sisters, not judging them. I applaud those standing up for fairness and honesty!

    Anonymous October 31, 2013 3:45 pm
  • Pathetic that a ‘domme’ would rather rate and berate other dommes then actually use the site to get money.. Laughable really.

    MistressX October 31, 2013 3:48 pm
  • Even more pathetic and laughable were ‘dommes’ paying to be on the site as a sub!

    Ms TnD October 31, 2013 3:58 pm
  • actually coming out of your purse to do this is pretty sad, lol

    Mistress/TopLosers.com October 31, 2013 10:36 pm
  • Even more laughable is how ridiculously far these girls went to take dommes down.Domme’s they claimed that they liked.And Takes Right, we demand respect, we don’t need to ask for it.

    MistressFinance November 2, 2013 11:30 pm
  • Just seeing this now. I was away from
    Findoms for Halloween.. This now makes so much sense. I realized only today that I had been rated down. It didn’t make sense to me why because I had never had a bad experience yet. But continuously, mistress naughtya and chat were consistently rude to me in chat, for no reason. So I’m not fit to be a Domme, in their opinion? That’s fucking laughable. Their holier than thou attitude bit them in the ass didn’t it? I’m not a mean person, but when someone does me wrong I get really angry. I, and other Dommes who were downrated did nothing to deserve that and one persons opinion on who is a Domme and who isn’t is a bunch of high school BS. How old are you again? Pathetic.

    MistressXavialune November 5, 2013 6:29 am
  • I was quite shocked myself to see all this.

    Mistress/TopLosers.com November 5, 2013 7:54 am
  • I’m disgusted. I’ve never done anything to these ladies, if I should even call them that, and yet they targeted Me. They don’t know Me. Or how qualified I am to be on the site. I might be new to Findom, but that doesn’t make Me less of a Domme. We all have to start somewhere. I’m pretty sure they weren’t born knowing how to be Dommes. I’m just glad it’s all been dealt with.

    Snovia Terror November 5, 2013 9:18 am
  • I just saw this now as I have been away from the scene for a bit. I realized my ratings have been slightly lower and this all makes sense. I knew that naughtya didn’t like me as my loyal slave told me so (and he would never lie). I am still learning in this world, and it hurts that someone would judge me like that when I’m honest about my newness. Seriously, REAL DOMME?!? Get a fucking life. I think the word “research” officially means “I’m a raging cunt”

    Miss Conceited November 15, 2013 4:17 pm
  • Wow. I can’t believe they would do all of that. What is their problem? And to think I had their fake pig account on my friend list! I CHATTED with them. I’m not even sure if they rated me a 1 or not. At this point, it’s done and over. Let’s hope we don’t have any more like them on FinDoms!

    GoddessMissy January 18, 2014 7:46 am